Where to pick up girls in New York City – Part 2

Right, by now you would have read Part I one of our guide of the best places to pick up girls in New York City. We are not done yet though. Oh no. This is a massive city, and that of course means that there are a lot of girls to pick up and a lot of places for you to find them. Fantastic! Here is another 10:

Output This place is in Williamsburg. It is packed to the brim with girls most nights. It is a live music venue which means that you are going to have a lot to discuss with the ladies. It also means that it gets pretty loud which means she is going to need to get up close and personal with you to discuss something! Amazing!

Museums I could split this down into multiple places. However, I know you don’t want that as you want as many places as possible! As you know, there are a lot of museums and art galleries spread around New York City. This means that there are a lot of places to strike up a bit more of an intellectual women amongst the citizens of NYC.

The Woods This is another destination in Williamsburg (what can I say, all the best ladies hang out there). The reason why I recommend The Woods is the fact that is very well designed for socializing. There is a long bar for picking up the ladies, a dance floor close by to woo her a little more and then a nice patio with a bit of food to finally grab her.

Bonfire Bar This is on Sixth Avenue. It is a hookah bar, and that means it is not for everybody. However, the atmosphere is obviously very relaxed. This means that it is dead simple to strike up a conversation.

Mulhollands Love your ladies to like a bit of sport? Well, head here! Again, it is in Williamsburg. There will be plenty of women plying for your attention here. You just need to get in there before another man does.

Barcelona Bar This is located on Eighth Avenue. The women here are very approachable due to the amount of space inside. Even when it does get busy there is enough space for you to move about. You should find that talking to the ladies is dead simple.

Dekalb Market Let’s veer away from the bars a little with this one. Dekalb market is bustling with music and shopping opportunities. If you keep an eye out then you will notice women here. If you play your cards right then you will also be hooking up with one.

The Train Seriously, I am not crazy here. There will be plenty of women on that train. Many of them within close proximity. Do not be afraid to start up a conversation with them. The worst they can say is no. Try to do it during the later stages of the day. People tend to be more relaxed then.

Windsor Sports Bar This place is not so much about the sports. It is about relaxation and cocktails, lots and lots of cocktails. The sophisticated lady likes to come here on her way home from work. She is relaxed. It is time to try your moves on her.

Webster Hall, The Village: This is a fantastic music venue with a seemingly different style of music every single night. If you can’t pick up a lady here then you need to work on your moves.

Where to pick up girls in New York City

If you live in New York City then you will know that it is thriving with girls, a lot of them in fact, most of them being very beautiful. How do you find them though? Well, there are a number of places and bars that you can head to. On this page I want to cover just ten of them (don’t worry as a part 2 will follow pretty soon!). Let’s take a little look, shall we?

Central Park I have to start with this. It is free to get in and there will be a lot of beautiful girls just milling about. If you are in NYC when it is hot then you absolutely need to head to Central Park. There will be so many girls there that it is unreal!

Kinfolk Studios I must admit, this is a location that is mainly for those looking for a bit of a ‘one night stand’. Being in Williamsburg then women that are on offer here are a touch more unique than others in NYC. This does not mean anything bad. Oh no, there are some lovely lasses here just waiting for you to chat to them.

Home Sweet Home I absolutely love this place. I am going to admit something here. The girls that frequent Home Sweet Home in Lower East Side tend to be on the nerdy side of things. This is nothing bad by the way. It just means that you are going to need to turn on that intelligence if you want to hook up with one of them!

Beauty Bar This place, located in East Village, is the perfect place to head if you want something a bit ‘retro’. 80s classics are the norm here. The great thing is, this is exactly the type of music that is going to get those women feeling a bit looser. This means they are going to be up for a fun time. Luckily for them, it is going to be you that will be giving them that fun time!

Lit Lounge This is also in East Village. The pick of the ladies tends to be after midnight here. So get here late. The drinks are cheap. That is always a plus!

Le Bain This is a ‘hot’ location in the Meatpacking District. By hot, I mean that it is boiling inside. The girls will want to leave pretty sharpish after getting in here. Fingers crossed that they will be leaving with you, eh?

Westway This place, as you may guess from the name, is located in West Village. It is a bit of a crazy location with many girls just clambering to get up on that pole and showcase their moves. You are going to need to have a bit of confidence to hit on these ladies. They are beautiful. I am sure you can manage it though.

Union Pool This is located in Williamsburg. It has an incredibly friendly atmosphere. This is going to make chatting to those lovely ladies that much easier.

Southside This is in Little Italy and is the location where people head to show off their dance moves. It is a small basement bar so don’t be heading here for long. You are going to need to be looking pretty smart to get inside though. The door policy is absolutely strict!

Hotel Chantelle This is in Lower East Side and to me, it boasts one of the best dance parties in the city. If you love a good boogie and are willing to show off to the ladies then I am sure you will find plenty that are ‘well up for it’ here.

Best Places to Pick Up Girls

For some reason, one of the biggest problems that the majority of guys have is the fact that they don’t know where to pick up girls. This is slightly obscure since girls are almost everywhere that you go. In this article I am going to take a little look at the very best of the best places to find girls. Of course, this isn’t a definitive guide, but it will go to prove that if you really want to find a girl, then you will need to get outside of that house and get searching!

Bars

This is one of those ‘tried and tested’ places to pick up girls. In my experience though, you won’t be getting too much of a long term relationship here as you won’t really find time to get to know the person, and there is way too much competition for the ‘good girls’, although if you want to be almost guaranteed a woman to take home that night, then the bar is the place to go. Just don’t hit on that bartender!

Restaurant

This isn’t going to be the best place to pick up girls, mainly since you can’t really move around and get talking to people (without being pulled up on it at least!). There will be a lot of girls around though, and many of them will travel in groups. I am sure you will find some way to get in there and start talking to them, even if it happens after you leave the restaurant. I do suggest you don’t hit on your waitress though. She would have been getting the same thing throughout the day, so it really won’t go down well!

Coffee Shops

This is one of the best places to pick up girls. Generally, when people go to a coffee shop they sit alone, and this means you have ample opportunity to go up there and just talk to them. Why not offer to buy them a coffee? If you do everything right, then you could get to at least talk to her. As I said though, it is going to require a lot of confidence. If she enjoys the chat, then you may even get a second ‘date’ out of her, just suggest a time and a place!

Churches

If you are religious then you will want to look for ‘like-minded’ girls who share your beliefs. What better way to do that then at church? You already know you have something in common, so just go for it! Get talking to her, you may succeed. Maybe invite her out for a coffee one time after church, you will be surprised at how often women actually say yes.

Volunteer

Girls absolutely love a guy who is willing to give up his time for somebody. Therefore volunteering is going to be one of the best ways to pick up girls. You will most likely see a number of listings in your area requesting volunteers, so answer a couple of these adverts! You will want to choose something that you are interested in though, I don’t see the sense of volunteering to look after dogs if you are afraid of them (happened to a guy I knew once!). One of the best things about volunteering is that it isn’t really deemed as a ‘guy’ activity, and for that reason you will certainly have your pick of the ladies. On top of all of that, you will also share common interests, and that is always good for kicking a relationship off.

Mall

If there is one thing girls love more than anything else in the world, it is shopping. Therefore, heading to the mall is a fantastic place to head if you are on the lookout for girls. You certainly will have your pick here, and they will keep coming and coming! This means that if you fail the first time, you are always going to have another go at it! If you really get them chatting to you, then there will also be a plethora of places around the mall which you can take them in order to continue your conversation.

Gym

The gym used to be seen primarily as a male domain. However, as more and more women are getting into fitness, the gyms are being absolutely filled to the brim with women. This therefore makes it a fantastic place to pick up a pretty little girl. You will have particular advantage here as women love a guy that looks after himself, and there is no better way to show that you care for your appearance than visiting a gym!

Supermarkets

Not the best place in the world to pick up girls, but it is viable. By that I mean I wouldn’t head expressly to a supermarket in order to look for women. If you go here they will be about though, all it takes is the ability to muster up the confidence to talk to one of them! There isn’t anything quite like bonding over a frozen turkey.

Clubs and Associations

In my opinion, this is the best way to pick up women for a long term relationship, bar none. This sort of activity allows you to talk to women who share common interests, and that is the key to any successful relationship. Join as many clubs and associations as you can, this should help you find the perfect women for you. Although of course, only join things which you have an interest in.

Libraries

Picking up women here is a bit of a challenge owing to how quiet you need to be, although if you are after the intellectual type, then it is one of the MUST BE places. Bond over a book that you have read, or if you are college help her to study. Just do anything to get her attention (Although be quiet!)

Dating Websites

Many people see dating websites as a bit of a ‘last resort’, although to be honest, this is one of the best places to find women. This is the ideal option for the slightly quieter guy, or one who simply doesn’t have time to go from woman to woman trying to find at least one who shares his interests. There are plenty of dating websites out there, so make sure you choose the right one for you!

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